Stop filling in the blanks yourself. This statement cut deep. A friend I really care about just told me that and it pierced me. It was a misunderstanding where I assumed they felt differently than they actually did. And it was an honest mistake…however that statement made me reflect. That is precisely what I have […]

With love and relationships when is enough, enough? I used to think… never. You don’t give up… you keep trying because it’s love, because it’s so worth it!But at what point does the relationship change from being passionate to toxic hurtful & destructive? I think that point is crossed when one or both partners feel […]

(Of an alternate possible reality) I’ve been traveling for more than 31 years and it is by far one of my favorite pastimes- It is something that defines who I am, gives meaning to my life and is ingrained in my soul. Now with places finally opening up .. I actually get to resume my […]

Are we all broken? Or is it just me???? I continue to have an open relationship- yet randomly I find myself thinking… why doesn’t anyone love and want only me? Am I not good enough? What do I lack that my partners seem to need more than I have to offer? After some thought I […]

This is the first time I’ve travelled or rather taken a plane anywhere since coming back from Berlin in January (2019 And to say it’s weird doesn’t do it justice. This is an activity that used to fill me with joy excitement and wonder! I looked forward to the uncharted fun, new experiences and people […]